Tuesday, 26 June 2018
Letter to the girl child 1
Dear girl child,
Why do you reduce your self to an object? Why seeking love in the wrong places? Why do you allow the sons of men determine your value?
Please note:
You are stronger than you know or think. Learn to place a high value on yourself and hold your head high. Keep your standards high.#loveandvalueyourself.
Love always,
Nigerian girl
Sunday, 17 June 2018
Fulfilling Your Dreams
This morning, I decided to take a few notes about living my dreams. I thought this could be helpful to someone out there and so I decided to share.
An aspect of living your dream entails the following (not conclusive):
1. Have a Plan.
A plan tells u what u want to do and what you do not want to do. It helps you remain focused and dedicated to your dreams and vision. It keeps you away from the distraction and It helps you manage time as well as your dreams.
2. Sit down.
At this stage, you don't sit doing nothing. You estimate the cost and sacrifice to be made toward achieving your dreams; as well as the effort. You need to learn more and research more. This stage tests your faithfulness towards your dreams.
3. Seek counsel.
The saying goes that nothing is new under the sun. You need to seek the counsel of people who have excelled at fulfilling similar dreams. There is a lot to learn from their mistakes. Most often we don't get to meet this individuals but you can help yourself by reading their biography or autobiography to avoid making similar mistakes.
4. Take action.
Most people spend years planing and seeking counsel without actually taking-off. Learn to take visible and physical actions towards fulfilling your dreams. This gives you an opportunity to discover yourself, your strength and capacity. It also helps conquer the fear within and you begin a personal learning process.
5. Re-assess your plan.
At this point, you have experienced certain gridlock and hitches in your initial plan. You assess the plan once more if it is still effective towards fulfilling your dreams at the right time or you need some modification or work at something more realistic and reasonable.
I hope you found this helpful and remember, Live your life deliberately, don't live your life to chance.
#storyofaNigeriangirl
Living Your Dreams
Living Your Dreams
For a while, I stayed away from my blog; what I love doing the most. I guess it's because I thought I found love. But I have discovered that the greatest love of all is your dreams. Never give up on your dreams, hold it tight and protect it with all you have got...... I remain your Nigeriangirl.
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