Dear Nigeriangirl,
I am in this relationship, which makes me feel like I am begging to be married. it has exhausted me and robbed me. the whole ish started with me just picking up his phone and then he makes this issue out of it. the problem i have is that, he picks my phone and searches it, and it is not an issue. do not get it. i have decided to mind my business, because i do not want a young man to dis respect me and make me insecure because of such trivial issues. if he decides to take a walk, i believe God is capable of healing all wounds. as usual, my only regrets will be the time i spent trying to be with a man with so much insecurity issues. I am beautiful, classy and God fearing.
one more lesson i have learnt is nevr to lower my standards for anybody. it is never worth it. you got standards, maintain it. please avoid the boytoys inclusive, they never grow up. above all, always put God first, and do not compromise on his standard. i did, and that's why am in this xxxx.
love you always
storyofanigeriangirl